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Last Gift of Time : Life Beyond Sixty
by
Carolyn G. Heilbrun
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At 72, Carolyn Heilbrun is the first to admit she's lucky. She writes:
"I am, of course, aware that my perspective is that of someone who has
enjoyed many advantages. I have had a privileged education, worked for
over thirty years as a professor of English . . . and now enjoy a comfortable
income. At the moment of recording this, I am in good health." Still, what
she seems to feel luckiest about is not being young anymore. In this thoughtful
collection of essays, The Last Gift of Time: Life Beyond Sixty, Heilbrun
describes her life in its final decades. For her, these years have been
a time of quiet revelation: she buys a house of her own in order to have
complete solitude, only to discover the pleasures of sharing that solitude
with her husband of nearly 50 years; she finds her horizons--and her friendships--expanding
through email; she offers a surprising argument against memory, suggesting
that elderly people who dwell too much in the past miss out on "new ideas
and pleasures we might, if firmly in the present, encounter and enjoy."
A former professor of English at Columbia University, feminist author
of several scholarly studies, and also the creator (under the name of Amanda
Cross) of a successful series of mysteries featuring inquisitive Professor
Kate Fansler, Heilbrun is vivid proof that life can be worth living to
the very end. This intimate report from the frontier is both comforting
and inspiring to all of us who must follow. --This text refers to an out
of print or unavailable edition of this title.
Amazon.com
Years ago Carolyn Heilbrun, a long-time feminist (Writing a Woman's
Life) who also writes mysteries as Amanda Cross (The James Joyce Murder),
decided to leave before age dragged her down by committing suicide at 70.
Fortunately, she reneged, and chose instead to chronicle moments from her
60s. Always erudite, often deliciously wry, if sometimes pretentious, Heilbrun
hits the mark more often than not in this book of essays. She speaks of
"unmet friends" whose lives have paralleled her own and blessed deliverance
from the academic bustle and backstabbing of Columbia University, the tyranny
of memory, and foolish feminine clothes. Throughout, her sense of renewal
is as welcome as her determination to go against the grain. --This text
refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.
The New York Times Book Review, Rebecca Pepper Sinkler
Despite the subtitle, Carolyn G. Heilbrun's reflections on The Last
Gift of Time: Life Beyond Sixty is not a self-help or inspiration book,
although it may be inspiring, and it is, in the broader sense, helpful.
. . . It is more like a letter to a friend, the kind you don't lie to.
--This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.
From Booklist
What a treasure Heilbrun is! Perhaps best known in academe for Writing
a Woman's Life (1988)--which traced the narrow "marriage quest" narrative
imposed on the lives of women, real and fictional--and outside it for her
Kate Fansler mysteries (written as Amanda Cross to preserve her Columbia
University professorship, from which she is now retired), the seventysomething
Heilbrun is a superb advertisement for the examined life. Past the age
at which she had long planned suicide, she marvels at the unexpected pleasures
of her sixties: a new home, new dog, solitude that is not loneliness, a
new link (e-mail!) to male friends from her grad school days, relatively
recent, highly valued relationships with women friends, special writers
(among them, May Sarton and Maxine Kumin), a close but not stifling multigenerational
family, and "not wearing dresses." Still healthy and curious, Heilbrun
"daily choose[s] life the more earnestly because it is a choice." Receptive
readers will hope she makes that same choice for many years to come. Mary
Carroll --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of
this title.
From Kirkus Reviews
This very satisfactory collection of essays celebrates the author's
seventh decade as she looks back on it from her serene and energetic eighth.
Heilbrun is a former Columbia University professor and a writer noted both
for her feminist scholarship (Writing a Woman's Life, 1988, etc.) and her
Amanda Cross mysteries. Satisfactorily married for half a century, the
mother of three grown children, and a grandmother, she nevertheless planned
to commit suicide when she reached 70. But when that magic number arrived,
she discovered in looking back that living through her 60s had been an
``astonishing'' pleasure. Unlike some of her peers--Doris Grumbach and
May Sarton among them--she has not grown crankier as she has grown older,
and she attributes that in part to a life with ``many advantages,'' including
good health and the discovery of close women friends. At first glance,
the essays encompass a broad diversity of subjects, from Bianca the black
dog to the joys of E-mail to androgyny and bisexuality (in a liberating
section called ``On Not Wearing Dresses''), and including thoughts on living
with men and on the fantasies of a lifelong Anglophile. Yet in fact, the
range is narrow. Each piece, more or less fruitfully, discusses coming
to terms with the past and formulating the terms of the present ``without
a constant . . . stream of anger and resentment, without the daily contemplation
of power always in the hands of the least worthy.'' In essence, the author
describes a state not of growing older, but of being older, a state that
incorporates both grace and growth. Drawing elegantly on the poets and
authors she has taught and written about, from Andrew Marvell to Gloria
Steinem, Heilbrun offers a glimpse not only of the rewards of aging, but
of feminist battles fought and won. -- Copyright ©1997, Kirkus Associates,
LP. All rights reserved. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable
edition of this title.
Book Description
When she was young, distinguished author and critic Carolyn Heilbrun
solemnly vowed to end her life when she turned seventy. But on the advent
of that fateful birthday, she realized that her golden years had been full
of unforeseen pleasures. Now, the astute and ever-insightful Heilbrun muses
on the emotional and intellectual insights that brought her "to choose
each day for now, to live." There are reflections on her new house and
her sturdy, comfortable marriage; sweet solitude and the pleasures of sex
at an advanced age; the fascination with e-mail and the joy of discovering
unexpected friends. Even the encroachments of loss, pain, and sadness that
come with age cannot spoil Heilbrun's moveable feast. They are merely the
price of bountiful living.
Ingram
The astute and ever eloquent Carolyn Heilbrun, author of the bestselling
"Writing a Woman's Life", muses on the emotional and intellectual insights
that have brought her to "choose each day for now, to live".
From the Publisher
As a young woman, Carolyn Heilbrun made a resolution not to live past
"three score years and ten." Taking her own life at the age of seventy,
she reasoned, would lend clean closure to a life well lived, and would
keep her from the many tragedies of aging--becoming a burden to her children,
witnessing the deterioration of her body, falling prey to a crippling disease.
But on the advent of her seventieth birthday, she looked back on the past
ten years and found, to her surprise, that her sixties had been the happiest
decade of all: after fifty years, her marriage had matured into a happy
balance of companionship and respect for solitude; she had developed deep
friendships with her grown children and a small circle of peers; she had
mastered a highly successful career as a scholar and writer. In the poignant,
essayistic writing that best showcases her elegant talent and provocative
mind, Carolyn Heilbrun celebrates the many pleasures of a mature life.
Filled with wisdom, knowledge, wry humor, and literary allusion, The
Last Gift of Time is a moving book for all women invested in the pursuit
of leading a woman's life to its fullest capacity. --This text refers to
an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.
From the Back Cover
"Like a letter to a friend, the kind you don't lie to . . . Heilbrun
looks back on her 60's with buoyant pleasure."
--The New York Times Book Review
"THOUGHTFUL . . . OFTEN HUMOROUS . . . An eloquent look at life after
60 . . . Heilbrun's irrepressible humor and irreverence are among the first
qualities noticed in The Last Gift of Time."
--San Francisco Chronicle
"HEILBRUN'S VOICE: HONEST, UNSENTIMENTAL, INTELLIGENT, WISE, RELEVANT.
She is rigorous, she takes herself seriously, and that voice, at 70, is
her reward."
--The Boston Globe
"READING CAROLYN HEILBRUN IS LIKE LISTENING TO MOZART. . . . In her
wit and commitment to measured statement, she comes as near to the achievements
of the 18th-century essayists as anyone writing today."
--Houston Chronicle
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